So, one night a couple of guys come walking up to the front of the bar. They were the typical type of douche bags. The type of guys that either are still in college or are trying to hold on to those glamourous years of high fiving and chasing women with their abilities of spending their parents money. I think I even have a visual for this one...
I thought I did...
So when these two guys come walking up they both have food. No big deal really, I explain to them that they have to finish their food before coming in and they both nod their heads in agreement. Then they start shoving the food into their mouths and the paper plates, napkins and other things they have all fall to the sidewalk. In typical douche bag fashion they let out a little yell, give each other a high five and start to dig their wallets out to give me their ID's.
Now, I'm not going to say that this town is a clean town, everyone knows that it isn't. There's garbage all over the place and there are people that get paid to clean up after all the inconsiderate slobs. From what I understand they make really good money too. Well, they either make good money or they're doing it as a community service because they did something stupid before.
As DB#1 goes to hand me his ID, I look down at the sidewalk.
Me: "You guys gonna leave that garbage there?"
DB#1: "Uh, yea bro. We're here to drink!"
Me: "Ok.. I need you to pick up that garbage first though."
DB#1: "It's cool dude. Someone gets paid to do that. They'll get it in the morning." He then laughs and looks at his friend.
Me: "Yea, it's not cool. If you guys want to come in then you need to pick up your garbage. It's not about people being paid to clean up after you. It's a respect type thing. You leave your garbage here and it's not showing much respect for me, the bar, or many other things."
DB#1: "Dude, why you gotta be an asshole?"
Me: "Really? I'm being an asshole because I'm asking you to respect something else instead of your hair gel and your parents credit card?"
As DB#1 and I are starting our conversation I could see that DB#2 was listening very closely. In fact, he even started picking up the garbage as his counterpart kept arguing with me.
DB#2: "Alright man, is there a garbage can near by?"
Me: "There's one right around the corner. Thanks."
DB#1: "You actually picked that shit up? HA HA HA!!"
DB#2: "Yea... he's kinda right and he won't let us in if we don't."
So after I the guy picks up the garbage and tosses it I check their ID's. I tell them thank you for picking it up and they start walking in. As they walk in I walk in behind them just to take a look and see how things are inside.
DB#1 (turning to DB#2): "Man, that guys a fuckin asshole huh?"
I tap the guy on the shoulder. "Excuse me?"
DB#1: "What man? You got a problem?"
Me: "I do now. Come on, it's time to go."
DB#2 (looking at his friend): "Dude, what the fuck? You can't keep your mouth shut for a second?"
They walk out without a problem and head down the street arguing with each other like a married couple. I could hear them arguing until they rounded the corner a block away.
I don't ask for much. I ask for respect. For me, the establishment, and the people around you. At one time this was a common idea among all people. As time goes by people tend to forget the lessons that were learned by our elders. Is it the elders fault for the younger generation ignoring them or is it the fault of the peers that just let things go because that's just how their friends are?
You can choose your friends, you can't choose your family.