No matter what you will always run into a person that is unassertively encroaching (aka: passive aggressive) They don't like to speak up about things that bother them. They'll sit back and hold in all their little complaints until they're a powder keg and then let it all out at once. This is not healthy in any means. Is it really worth it to let all that stuff build up inside you?
"Man, I just can't believe the type of stuff that goes on here."
"Well, you know who to talk to if somethings going on and it shouldn't be."
"Yea, but it's not my place to say anything."
"If it's bothering you then your the only one that can say anything."
"I just don't want to cause any waves."
They push things back and keep it in because they're scared to hurt feelings. I think the hurt feeling is there so that it can be used. Just like the other feelings like happy, sad, pain, ecstasy, and all the other dwarfs.
"Listen, if you don't put it out there then no one's going to know. So do something about it and don't just sit here and wallow in yourself..."
People that aren't able to get their feelings out tend to turn them inside. They get upset with themselves and with the events that are going on. They put themselves in a type of depression that is only lifted after they've burst.
"...If you don't let it out your just gonna make yourself miserable."
"Nah... I'll be fine."
"No you won't. You'll be bitchy until you get it out and then you'll just blow up."
"Yea, but things change then."
"Only for the next week because no one wants to talk to you. Then it starts all over again."
"It does seem that way..."
"That's because it is that way. So start telling people what you think at the time and quit worrying about hurting feelings. That's what they're there for."
Now here's the one thing I find interesting about passive aggressive people. They bitch and moan about something not being done and then when a solution for it is found they only do the solution for a short period of time. After that they quit doing it and the problem resurfaces all over again.
It really is a vicious circle that they can break out of but choose not too. Why not? They like the attention. They like knowing that people are talking about them even if it is in a bad way. That way they can feel sorry for themselves even more. If they're lucky they'll get some sap that will stick around and feel sorry for them too.
Then the question is, "Who's worse?" The passive aggressive or the idiot that sits around and puts up with their bullshit and praises them to make them feel better.
You know, eventually people get tired of listening to those passive aggressive individuals. After a while, you just pretend you're listening to them.
PS: I think you read the wrong story with the wrong dwarfs. Plus the ecstatic dwarf might've majorily pissed off the grumpy dwarf. Could you imagine that fight?
I think that's why there's only 7 of them left. They all got pissed and just started killing off the others.
"2 may enter, 1 may leave."
Sometimes the individuals are a little too close to home to just pretend your listening to them.
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